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MasterPicker , 16 Jun 2010

Where do you pick?

Curious where the different sweet spots are people like to pick. I know a lot of threads have different places but thought we could all list it out so everyone can see in one thread. Also do you dig down to the blood or just the top layer of skin? I try not to hit blood but sometimes it happens. For me there are 3 spots: 1&2. in the fold of the knuckle of my thumb and big toe on the palm side about the size of a quarter. 3. Palm side area between the pinky finger and hand about the size of a quarter
82 Answers
Alex_M
August 25, 2010
My heels where the skin is thick. Also, the bottoms of my big toes, the ball of my foot and right below my pinky toes. I have been biting my fingernails since I was 7 (I'm 25 now) and biting/eating the skin around my nails since I was 10.
Buffyfan
August 25, 2010
I pick at my scalp until it bleeds and scabs over. It sounds gross but I love the feeling of getting my nails under a scab and picking it off. I'm trying to stop but it's very hard. I usually have several scabs on my head that I pick continuously.
bottervliegie
September 16, 2010

In reply to by Buffyfan

I know the feeling! I love picking my scabs as well (anywhere on my body) and I remember as a kid I would pick at the edges of my scabs until they were "dry" enough and try to get as big a piece as possible at once.
skuhl9906
September 03, 2010
My first post so here goes... I pick my face, neck, chest, shoulders, arms, back, sides, legs, genital area... also chew/pick my fingernails/cuticles/skin around them and pick my toenails. Also i have psoriasis on my scalp and behind my ears which I pick just about daily on my way to work. Also, I pick around my lips, and I also chew the inside of my cheeks.. (scrunch my lips over to one side and bite the opposite side) and sometimes I even push in on my cheek while in this pose to get a better bite. I'm also a chronic nose picker regardless if it "feels" like something is in there. And I'm a habitual knuckle/joint cracker. (I'm talking full body cracking sessions including multiple joints on multiple appendages) But here's the saddest part of all, and here's where I really really want someone to respond... does anybody elses picking spill beyond them? I routinely pick my husband's pimples!!! I'll ask if he wants me to go over him - granted he does have a lot of body acne.. but regardless! I've even picked a pimple on my baby!! And I see people with a pimple, or a large or deep blackhead and I'm driven to distraction wanting to pick it!! Sometimes when I ask my husband and he says no I get really mad. I've even went on youtube and watched pimple picking vids for hours! I even remember the first EVER time I picked, was my first ever pimple, and I got off the bus and is was in the crease of my nose and it hurt really bad, so when I got home I went straight to a mirror to see what was hurting and I could see the swelling under the skin and so I squeezed and it popped and it instantly felt better.. but seeing the yuck come out was SOOOOO satisfying!!! I litterally JUST found this site and I'm freaked out because I knew it was wierd..... but OH MY GOD!!! I had no idea!! And I'm reading the info and seriously I have like EVERY SINGLE manifestation of this except trich. I do have depression that I *thought* was fairly under control.. except it's really really really hard for me to get up in the morning. I do not suffer from anxiety-I used to have panic attacks so I know the difference. I don't know what it is. It's not like I'm relieving any anxiety, I actually get PLEASURE out of picking! I've lost HOURS to it. I even have a "picking kit" which is a compact without the makeup and a straight pin that stays in it. I've even got rubbing alcohol and cotton balls in my bedside table for picking! Lately I've been going to the restroom at work and getting "lost" picking my chest/shoulders/arms/genitals! Sure afterward I feel awful...and my skin is terrible.. but I have freckles so it hides a lot of it.. I guess. I pick pimples that are there, some that may not be or may be the smallest blackhead you ever felt (because they're even too small to see) and then I pick and pick at the scabs and dry skin so they take forever to heal...I've even eaten scabs!! Is anyone out there this bad or worse???? Help?!
bottervliegie
September 16, 2010

In reply to by skuhl9906

You have no idea how relieved I feel after reading your post. I feel like a freak! I pick, squeeze, scratch, bite, even eat (I know, disgusting, right?)... Basically, for me it's a "full body experience". I've been picking since I was 12 and got acne and even today I pick my face, neck, shoulders, breasts, scalp, legs, bikini line (ingrown hairs, you know...), I bite my cuticles, scratch my scalp and ears, I pick my nose, I could go on and on. I guess I just have this thing about imperfections. I know it's disgusting, but I can't stop! The mirror is my enemy, but even without a mirror I would scratch at any part of my body I can reach (this is mostly unconcious, though) while reading, watching TV, working on my computer. I see someone else with a blackhead or a pimple and I wish that I could just see it pop... I used to squeeze my 3 sisers' pimples and blackheads on their backs and my mother still asks me to "help her out" with her back and behind her ears. I try not to, but sometimes I just can't help myself when I see a pimple on my husband's back. My one sister had these amazing blackheads at a time. They were barely visible, but with a steady squeeze this huge thing would pop out in one go. It was so satisfying to do and I was actually sad when her condition cleared up.
shatzee85
September 07, 2010
Hi... This is my first post. I've picked for what seems like forever.. I used to only pick at my arms (mostly upper) and any acne I might see.. I can relate greatly to the post above that deals with the insane urge to pick at acne, even if it isn't your own. I get annoyed to distration too! But in the past three or so years I began picking at my toes somehow. Now it's like a ritual. I have special tweezers and clippers I get out just for my toes and nothing else. I pick at them mindlessly with my fingers until that doesn't work well enough.. then I have to move the lamp closer, change postitions and use my "tools". I always draw blood from at least two of my toes.. it's embarassing.. they are all picked and dry and usually bloody. I can't paint my toenails well because I don't have much of any given toenail left. I feel absolutely nuts about this compulsion. But the scary thing is I can't stop.. It doesn't hurt when I'm picking.. It actually feels good. Later on my toes are very sore and if I stub one or my daughter steps on one I could cry for the pain it causes, lol.... The whole ordeal is so emabarrassing Anysay.. I also pick my shoulders, breasts and legs when I have "used up" my toes and arms for the time being.. I have scars everywhere from it :(
mrslion06
November 14, 2010

In reply to by shatzee85

i feel an insane urge to pick acne too....even if it isnt my own!!! i beg my husband to let me pop his zits on his back and face (which he gets rarely) and of course he never lets me...
bellas_mom_09
September 07, 2010
This is my first post. I pick at any Acne that shows up on my face or back. The ones on face, especially on my chin, I tend to pick them until they get huge. I don't usually go for blood... but I get some twisted rush when the scab gets hard and I rip it all of at once. Then I become incredibly ashamed and can't even cover them well with make-up. I hate it :( It makes me hate myself. Occasionally I will have some on my arms but my biggest other spot for picking is my legs or back because they are easier to cover up... except during the summer (i always wear jeans, sleeves and am miserable) I too pick at my toe nails and the skin around my toes... sometimes picking too far until they bleed. I try to keep my nails short but find if I can't pick the scab with my non-existent nails I get extreme anxiety and will use anything with a sharp point to get the scab off. I take an SSRI and Ativan for anxiety and depress and ambien to help me sleep. None of it has helped. :( I don't want my daughter to see me doing this and end up like me. And I don't want to continue hating the way I look everytime I look in the mirror. It doesn't help my sex life either... I feel ashamed so I don't like get undressed and letting my boyfriend see me. He tells me all the right things, that I look beautiful anyway... and he tries to help me find ways to stop but he really just doesn't understand. :( The only thing I have found that use to help me was having Acrylic nails made it so much harder for me to pick and a lot of things would heal. But the last time I got them I kept tweezers around and they didn't do as much good. I feel for everyone on this message board. It's good to know I'm not the only one.
schlippeh
September 07, 2010

In reply to by bellas_mom_09

everywhere... initially it was a face thing... pimples/blackheads/etc..as well as upper arm (due to dry skin). but over the past 10 years it has spread to wherever there are imperfections, bumps, scabs, etc. This has led to picking my chest, back, hips, stomach, legs and arms= aka everywhere. Sometimes I get all hypo-chondriac-ish and think I have a skin disease... my skin tends to form ingrown hairs and is very dry. But then I wonder if because I am picking I am causing the new bumps to form? perhaps its a bacterial infection (just like any zit)? and by picking that area and others we are actually creating the infection to new spots? Ugh.. I am so tired of this problem, life is hard enough! I keep trying and trying to stop but like all of you something triggers it and I fall back into habit instantly. My latest theory is that we are perfectionists... for me at least I want clean smooth skin so badly that I think I need to pick off all the bumps so it can heal to be "bump free." Obviously the scabs get picked off again and again, only making me my worst enemy and preventing smooth skin as a reality. This issue is so complex, yet at the same time so simple. We just have to stop and control ourselves, mind over matter, will power, etc. Obviously easier said then done, I know, but try to treat the issue as a drug addiction... try and go x amount of days w/o doing it... be CONSCIOUS of the issue (as if your not already i know). I want to believe , no.. I NEED to believe I can eliminate this element of my life. With more and more of us coming forward expressing the issue it only leads me to believe this has to do w/ recent trends/current societal ideas... aka IMAGE and being flawless like "everyone else." Truly though, when you look around (NOT at TV or a magazine) people are flawed, all of them and we are not nearly as disfigured as we see ourselves at 100x in the mag mirror. This issue roots in self love... its not selfish, its healthy, and we need more of it in our lives. You are beautiful just the way you are. Look into that face and for once listen to the other voice, the quiet one in the background that is saying "you dont need to do this, why are you doing this, not again, leave it alone, etc" as opposed to letting go of control and entering auto-pilot of instantaneous gratification and self-loathing. The remedy lies within.
daydreamer
September 09, 2010
I've picked moles all over my body! And I've got many! I also pick pimples, blackheads and clogged pores. The areas I pick the most are my face, breast, neck, arms and ears (on the in- and outside). I also pick my hands and legs. What I hate the most is that I pick my eyelids!!! And it hurts like hell!!! I almost always start crying because of the pain when I rip the skin off with my tweezer. There are these spots right abovemy eyelashes and I want them gone. The skin on the eyelids contains tiny tiny spots which is normal, but I want them to look similar and have like a pattern. If one spot feels bigger than the others (that are smooth) I pick it off. All this results in my eyes swelling up and making me look even more ugly. I don't think I have trichotillomania, but I pull out my eyebrows with a tweezer every day, so I don't have any eyebrows. And now I've also begun to pull out some of my eyelashes when I pick on the skin right above them. If a hair sort of sticks out I have to remove it. I pick all over my face, but besides from my eyelids other annoying areas I pick are my lips and the skin under my nose and the pores on the inside of my nose (they are often clogged). I really want to stop picking because of how it affects my life, but I live in Denmark and so far I haven't been able to find a doctor who knows enough about skinpicking to be able to help me. It's so fucking frustrating! But I'm glad I'm not alone anymore...
daydreamer
September 09, 2010

In reply to by MasterPicker

I've actually often considered the same thing myself, but never done it though. Some of them disappear and some become less visual, but most of them become even more visual because of the scarring. If you only have a few irritating moles, I would definitely say you should go see a doctor/dermatologist instead of removing them yourself.
charmander21
September 10, 2010

In reply to by MasterPicker

I pick moles, most times without thinking about it and I find that they typically look slightly less like moles after and more similar to a bad scar, but that they are still significantly darker than the rest of my skin. That being said, the scars have always ended up bigger and thicker than the mole was in the first place because where I once just had a mole, I now have both a mole and a scar. Sometimes, a small mole ends up looking more like a lighter but much bigger mole in the end anyway, so I definitely don't reccommend scraping it off. If it bugs you that much, just go get it removed.
daydreamer
September 09, 2010
By the way does anyone besides me pick the skin on their eyelids?
charmander21
September 10, 2010
I basically pick everywhere. my scalp, although it doesn't ever scab because it's really dry and I can just pick away painlessly, I pick moles, ingrown hairs, scabs (especially from shaving my legs) and most often.. acne on my chin. I have very clear skin on my face but I tend to break out only on my chin, and then it starts.. I pick one small pimple, and I eventually get more because I can't stop touching the are waiting for it to scab over. then it's basically just continuous from there until I feel so ashamed of the scabs on my chin that I bury them in concealer and foundation and have to consciously stop picking til they disappear. it's unbelievably frustrating and sometimes next to impossible. I defintely go through cycles and it's hard to resist the urge when it just hits you out of nowhere again! I had no idea how many other people actually did this too!
ashamedtobeseen
September 17, 2010
I really didn't know this was a disorder. I thought I was just some freak. I pick on my face and lower arms. I have so many scars on my arms. I hate to go out in public, I feel that people are looking at me and that really embarasses me. Is there any thing that can be done for the scaring. If I get nervous or upset I will actually dig holes in my face and arms. I have even woken up in the middle of the night with blood on my arms and face from picking in my sleep.
MAD-am
September 17, 2010

In reply to by ashamedtobeseen

im from the uk, i asked my doctor about the picking scars the other day, sometimes i feel like there is no point in giving up the picking because even if i have no scabs/red marks to hide, i still have to cover the scars up. she said that unless the scars are deep and are raised (keloid scars) there is nothing she can prescribe for them, as they can only prescribe silicon gel sheets for big unsightly scars. i have lots of small round scars on my lower and upper arms ranging from pink to light brown in colour, i can tell you that unless they are very deep they will fade in time, your skin is an amazing organ and it does quite well at healing itself given enough time. there are a few things you can do to help the healing process, i used to use bio oil and i found that works quite well, but im a bit skint at the moment so i am using cheaper rescue oil, i also like to use st ives apricot scrub it removes dead skin cells so may be worth trying on old dark scars but not new pink ones, it will make them worse because they are still healing. i managed to do a bit on sunbathing this summer (english weather is usually shit) and it helped alot at hiding the scars as they are less obvious on darker skin i was really happy with that. ive seen a lot of theese scar serums being advertised on the web but im not convinced, they seem really expensive and claim to rid you of scars in a few weeks! i think its a load of bull sh*t. if you have a bit of money to play with i think a dermatologist would have a few techniques on offer to you. good luck
Pickie
October 17, 2010
I pick my cuticles, sole of my right foot, and to a lesser extent the cuticles around my toes, esp. the last two toes on each foot. I also bite the skin off my lips but I don't think that's noticeable (unless of course I'm actually doing it). I'm very self-conscious about my cuticles - I think it makes me look crazy. I've been picking my heel for the last 2.5 hours, and it has bled. I also took tweezers to it - I like to have as smooth an area of picked skin as possible. There's even blood on my fingers as I type this. The more I pick my heel, the less I pick my cuticles. Also, I find having fake nails on almost eliminates my cuticle picking. I've had them on & off for the last few years. They're expensive & time-consuming to maintain, and I usually end of picking them off after a couple of weeks. When I first went to have them done I was SO embarrassed about the state of my cuticles.
mrslion06
November 14, 2010

In reply to by Pickie

i also can sit and pick the heels, soles, and toes of my fee for hours until they bleed, yet cant stop!!! i tried to keep my nails too short to pick but then i started using tweezers! OMG it is so so so painful! remeber you are not alone.

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